The awareness of trust issues can almost be more tormenting than the trust issues themselves. Always acting on the sensation when trust issues are triggered can lead to a lot of conflict. Always ignoring the sensation, however, for fear of trusting yourself, can also come with its problems.
There are ways to work through the issues of your past in a way that doesn't ruin your current relationship.
If you’re a private person, you may not want to post tons of photos of you and your partner being affectionate. There’s nothing wrong with that. What is wrong, however, is a partner who forces you to post these types of photos to make you prove your loyalty.
This person won’t bring up a fight once it’s over. Once you’ve decided it’s settled, it’s settled. They will show you that they don’t hold grudges, or secretly resent you for something they say they’re over. You’ll feel safe knowing that they always say what’s on their mind.
Do you feel like your partner loves you for who you are? Or, does he try to change you? If your partner attempts to change you, then you’ll begin to believe, subconsciously, that he wants to be with someone else entirely.
Nobody is possessive in the relationship. You encourage one another to have your own lives—to go on that trip with friends, to take that class, to grab that drink with that colleague.
You may be to blame for your bug-a-boo boyfriend.
A little peek into the phone or email...right or wrong?
Do you really want to take on two fights instead of one?
Can you really handle what you find?
In some relationships, love just doesn't last a lifetime
If it is, there's a bigger issue at hand.