. A lot of men who hope you’ll lower your standards for them will try to confuse you and say you’re being high maintenance when you’re simply asking to be treated with respect or in a way that won't leave you picking up all of the slack in a relationship. Here are standards that are never too high when dating.
When it comes to Black love, Black women are constantly being instructed to lower their high standards.
Before getting angry with someone, consider what you know about this person. Has she generally had your back and shown care towards you? People deserve credit—the credit they’ve built up. If this person usually is good to you, then this mistake may be just that: a mistake.
Across the diaspora there is a negative view when it comes to the upbringing and mannerisms of “just Black” women.
While we might not always do this, it's best to focus on what a man has to offer from the inside out, and not from the outside in.
Have you ever been abused trying to prove you weren't taking advantage of someone?
If you’re pulling out your your best moves in bed before he’s even taken you to a movie, you have to consider what you both have to look forward to and the tone you may be setting for the relationship. A man should earn your inner freak.
Straight From His Mouth: Do Men Really Mind Spending Money On Women And What Are Their Expectations?
There is only one type of man who doesn’t mind spending money on women: the type of man who can afford to spend money on women.
Has your kindness ever been taken for weakness.
While it is usually recommended to take your time to get to know the person you potentially want to be with, is there such a thing as getting to know them too long before making a commitment?