I think role play should be a fun occasional thing, rather than, say, an escape from something you’re afraid of – like being yourself. These are all just thoughts. Roleplay can exist in a lot of forms and for a lot of reasons in someone’s life.
Remember that, unless you’re in an open relationship, sex is the one thing that truly separates your relationship with your partner, from your relationships with everybody else. He’s the only person you do it with. That in and of itself is part of the intimacy.
If things get desperate, you can always book a little weekend getaway at a reasonable hotel or AirBnb in town. Just make sure that they have air conditioning. You can go bang it out—literally—and tie yourselves over for a few weeks.
Eeeesh. That’s a tough situation. What if your partner is just bad at the thing you want to try? Sometimes it’s better to be left wondering than to be disappointed. But you do know that, you can always just train him. It could be fun.
It’s a bold undertaking even to attempt to explain how sex is different when you’re in love versus when you aren’t. But it’s worth trying to explain so that, if anyone out there is wondering if they’re in love, or wondering if it’s time to hang up the old different-partner-every-week hat, they can work toward […]
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