A lot of the changes to your sex life, from that first drought to the natural slow down, should have happened long before you get married. But even then, there will still be a few things you notice that are different after you tie the knot.
Remember that, unless you’re in an open relationship, sex is the one thing that truly separates your relationship with your partner, from your relationships with everybody else. He’s the only person you do it with. That in and of itself is part of the intimacy.
Once a man gets to know his partner well—all her fears, insecurities, childhood traumas, dreams, issues, goals, and all that—he can’t see her as a sexual object. It can almost be easier for men to try bold and nasty things in bed with women they don’t know very well. For them it can feel like, how are they supposed to put a gag ball in the mouth of a woman whose grandmother they helped recover from surgery?
I don’t really know what is considered normal landscaping down there. I shave everything in the front. Some women have told me that’s bizarre, because they leave a small strip of hair. When I say I shave everything, I should mention I don’t shave my back door area. Maybe the man I’m sleeping with has only been with women who do that and thinks I’m gross. I don’t know!
If there was something you and your partner tried, or something your partner did to you, that you loved, tell him. Now’s the time—while it’s fresh in your memory and the moment is natural. You probably won’t tell him that while you’re, like, doing laundry together tomorrow.
Eeeesh. That’s a tough situation. What if your partner is just bad at the thing you want to try? Sometimes it’s better to be left wondering than to be disappointed. But you do know that, you can always just train him. It could be fun.
You deserve to know if you’re going to walk into a room full of guys playing video games, staring at you because they barely ever see females. And you definitely deserve to know if other men may hear you having sex.
There are several chemical, hormonal, mental, emotional and even circumstantial factors.
If you’re in a loving, committed relationship then sometimes, when you’re having a bad day, there’s nothing better than a hair-pulling, dirty-talking, sweaty session in the sheets with your significant other to shake it off. Sex, as a stress-reliever, certainly has its merits. But you run into a problem when you use sex to “fix” […]
The ancient Indian tradition, whether applied to yoga, massage or sex, is meant to foster deeper connections with the physical and spiritual self.
