Sometimes, the focus should be on you and the vibes should all be positive.

When a man has a lot to say about a topic you’ve brought up, at first it can feel like oh nice he cares about he thing I care about. But you may find he just talks over you, takes over the conversation, and turns this into a lecture on his thoughts on the topic. It’s not a dialogue.

Have you gotten the message from first dates, exes, ex friends, coworkers, family members—you name it—that you don’t come off as genuine? Maybe that you come off as “networky?” How about “fake”—is that another descriptor you’ve come across from time to time? If you do, it might be because you use people. Those who are always […]