self-worth
In her latest interview, Grammy-nominated singer and Golden Globe-winning actress Andra Day said that playing Bille Holiday in Hulu's recently released biopic about the jazz icon helped her deal with the porn and sex addictions she faced in her personal life.
You are the reason you are great, not your house, not your car, not your designer bags or any of your friends; you are your best thing. However, until you activate your authority over you and see just how great you are, your light won't shine as it is intended to; trust me, I know.
Having conviction can mean walking away from things that seem appealing at first, but that you know wouldn’t be good for you in the long run.
“You’re better than this,” “He’s not worthy of you,” “Why do you put up with this?” Do friends and loved ones often say these things to you about your relationship?
He is kind of flirty in text, but then he invites friends on your date. He kissed you last time you hung out, and is ignoring you tonight. When you just tell him you want to know what the hell is going on, he may bail—he wanted the freedom to not tell you what was going on, in case something “better” came along. F*$# him.
Ciara was the one who was dragged on social media...I guess because women have come to expect to hear these messages from the church.
Credit: Carline Jean/Sun Sentinel/TNS (Getty) Like many who heard the comments from Florida rapper Kodak Black (the irony of his name is crazy) about not dating dark-skinned women and not liking his own complexion, I was taken aback. For about a split second. The truth is, a very large segment of Black men, from athletes, to […]
Do your friends seem to come and go? You have new ones each year, and the ones you lose, you lose in a blowout fight. Does it seem like your friends seem to be getting super busy—so busy that they don’t have time to take your calls or hang out as much? There are a […]
After coming to a career crossroad, I decided to focus on my own definition of success.
You will never get to a point of assurance if you’re filling girlfriend shoes without him ever having actively given you the title.
Why are some of us such different people in relationships?
My Asian boyfriend was a manifestation of my own shame and lack of self-worth.