The early twenties is a tough time for everyone in the career department. You have to work long hours. You have to do jobs you don’t want to do. You are still at the bottom of the latter, as an intern or an assistant. Men have a very hard time balancing work and personal life. During their early twenties, they must give all of their attention to their careers or they won’t work out. Women are better at giving their careers and their personal life equal attention starting at a young age. But not men.
Do you have the tact and perceptiveness to get around a new group of people, navigate all the various personalities, and get along with them all? Do you know how to pick your battles, bite your tongue, and appease people? Or, do people need to do all of those things to appease you?
He says he's a grown a** man, but does he act like one in your relationship?
Are you still ignoring this red flags?
Why did he seem to fall off the face of the earth?