Orgasms do more than provide pleasure.... 😈🤘🏾
When you are present with each sensation, you let the orgasm happen – rather than make the orgasm happen.
Technically speaking, any person who has a vulva has the mechanics to squirt
Then there’s the O-spot, which is at the back of the vagina, practically at the rear of the cervix.
An orgasm sends a surge of relaxing hormones through the body
Nothing is off-limits!
If there is a position that really works for you, he goes to that first—even if it isn’t his favorite. He knows that it’s much harder for women to orgasm, so he wants to do everything he can to ensure you do before he does, and that means your favorite position comes first.
A little buzz may take your regular orgasm into the stratosphere.
Men who care check in. They ask, “Is this working for you?” and they ask, “Did you have an orgasm?” afterwards. They acknowledge the fact that it’s just as important that you finish as it is they finish.
If you’re sleeping with someone who already has a big head—maybe he’s slept with a lot of women and prides himself on the idea that he’s great at sex—you may just want to take him down a notch. (I don’t completely disagree with that sentiment).
If she trusts that you know what to do and will care about her pleasure, then she’ll let you try the new things you want to do. Otherwise, she’ll just want to go to that one old move that she at least knows she can maybe orgasm from.
Even in the workplace Black women aren't seen feminine but oversexed, says Dr. Pennington.