When we meet someone who is our opposite, there can be an initial excitement there, but we have to ask ourselves, “Is this a quality I think I can not only live with but enjoy?” Or…is it just the newness that’s fun for now, and eventually the differences will drive you crazy?
When he does join you for social occasions, he’s doing you a favor. You can sense that he’s doing you a favor. So now, you owe him one, just for bringing him along.
Your tightly wound honey needs a lot of quiet time. Too much noise or commotion exhausts him and causes him anxiety. So if you have girlfriends over to drink and chit chat for two hours and then put on your dance party workout video after they leave, your partner might fly off the hinges.
For the harmony part to happen, the pros need to outweigh the cons.
They say opposites attract. But the truth is, not all do. Some drive each other nuts. Want to know what your ideal opposite is?