When we meet someone who is our opposite, there can be an initial excitement there, but we have to ask ourselves, “Is this a quality I think I can not only live with but enjoy?” Or…is it just the newness that’s fun for now, and eventually the differences will drive you crazy?
When he does join you for social occasions, he’s doing you a favor. You can sense that he’s doing you a favor. So now, you owe him one, just for bringing him along.