Translation: wait for the other person to respond to the first thing you said before saying eight more things.

Does the idea of having a virtual date seem awkward and stressful to you? Recently Madame Noire got the chance to hear from Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, on how video dating can be less intimidating and more enjoyable for both you and others navigating the increasingly popular way to date. 

Recently, Madame Noire got the chance to hear from Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, about why now more than ever people are experiencing "FODA," an acronym that stands for the "fear of dating again." The expert also shared tips on how to confidently put yourself back out there.

Well-known dating app Hinge shares data on what the "dating clock" is and explains why now more than ever people have been thinking about when they'll find "the one." Despite the complications the pandemic has caused in the dating world, the experts say daters are bringing the best versions of themselves to the market.

By the time someone reaches the second half of their life, they’ve been working with certain ideas about relationships. Online dating can disrupt all of those ideas. So even though singles in their fifties and beyond may benefit the most from online dating, they can also be the singles who struggle the most with it.

Admittedly, there are also some dudes who are just creepy, know exactly what they’re doing when they send those eggplant emojis, and should be blocked. But then there are the guys who are trying their best, and for whom it’s just hard out there. They don’t know how they come off.

Online dating can be a roller coaster of emotions. You’ll feel so hopeful about one guy—he seems so perfect that you think your search is over—and then you’ll be totally let down. This can happen five times a week with online dating, and can leave you emotionally exhausted.