Sitting around, quietly waiting for someone to notice you and give you what you want without you ever having to ask for it doesn’t make you nice. It’s actually the opposite of that because, you’re setting others up to fail. A woman who might have said yes if you’d asked her out is now the devil in your eyes because she dated someone else. But you never asked her out.
You may feel more attracted to people who treat you poorly because of your attachment style.
Not unlike Karrueche, many of us have reached our breaking point with a bad boy at some point.
Stomping around campus like a miserable monster – seething with inner rage and a venomous tongue – was a man who no one could stand. Brutish and brusque, nothing nice ever came out of his snout. He believed the world was cruel to him, and like any other tormented troll, he wanted everyone else to […]
My “bad guy” infatuation began in high school when I entered into my first serious relationship (well, serious for a 17-year-old). The guy was a football player, your traditional 6-foot-2 and 230 pounds of fineness. Although our personalities were polar opposites, this young man’s slick wit and unconventional ways kept me intrigued and in love. Our […]
Do want more than just nice?
Have you ever dissed a man for one of these reasons?
There’s always been a debate between “nice guys” and “bad boys.” For some reason women feel a sense of thrill of the unknown when it comes to instability of a bad boy. On the other side, nice guys often get the reputation as a floor mat, with a weak backbone. So in the long-term, after […]
