After beauty brand owner and social media maven Supa Cent posted her new man on Instagram, people believed she was doing too much, too soon. She responded. See what she had to say.

When you believe you are bad because of your past mistakes, you wind up accepting abusive friends, mean partners, and generally sub-par relationships. You believe, in your subconscious, that you deserve those as punishment. Hey, if you learned from your mistakes and don’t do those things anymore then you deserve good relationships.

LOVE

I had no time to bemoan the ruins of a failed relationship when I was out exploring, meeting, seeing, doing, loving and living.

Spending time being sad about a situation I couldn't change was emotionally draining and when I decided to stop doing that, I began to feel better.