The awareness of trust issues can almost be more tormenting than the trust issues themselves. Always acting on the sensation when trust issues are triggered can lead to a lot of conflict. Always ignoring the sensation, however, for fear of trusting yourself, can also come with its problems.
If you’re a private person, you may not want to post tons of photos of you and your partner being affectionate. There’s nothing wrong with that. What is wrong, however, is a partner who forces you to post these types of photos to make you prove your loyalty.
Do you feel like your partner loves you for who you are? Or, does he try to change you? If your partner attempts to change you, then you’ll begin to believe, subconsciously, that he wants to be with someone else entirely.
There is a difference between being concerned and being possessive.
I hate to admit it, but at one time I neglected my goals and put most of my energy into a man. It happens to the best of us.