Trust is a building block of a healthy relationship, but, there are times honesty in a relationship is not the best policy.
Radical honesty ain’t for everybody or every relationship; even though it should be.
It is absolutely fine to give those in your life your honest opinion, especially when you're asked for it, however brutal honesty has serious consequences that can permanently alter your relationships.
Again, if you’re in a serious relationship, then your finances affect his finances. Furthermore, if you plan on getting married one day, then your debt becomes his debt. So he probably doesn’t want to just learn that you took out a major loan without even consulting him beforehand.
Being able to see another person’s perspective, considering what it would be like to walk a mile in the shoes of another, and exhibiting mercy are all wonderful traits. But there are just some things people do that you cannot forgive, and probably shouldn’t. There comes a point when forgiving someone would make you a […]