“I was supposed to get your number for my friend,” I slurred. “I’d rather you keep it for yourself,” Hakeem said and put his number in my phone.
You always insist that you go get one more drink, or go to one more establishment, or stay up a little bit later, even when your date clearly doesn’t want to. But you only realize how much he was resisting the next day, when you’re sober.
Whether a family member laundered money, or cheated on his spouse, this is private, and not something you should share with a first date. You never know what someone’s intentions are, or how they may use information against you.
Men might not mean harm, but these moves just aren't it.
Your date wants to get to know you -- the real you.
Here are some tips for what not to do on a first date.