There is no such thing as “perfect” emotional maturity.
“If someone is emotionally mature, they will present as a good thinker and problem solver in the relationship,” and “A person who is emotionally mature will try to understand your love language, the way you like to give and receive love, and will aim to deliver love to you in your preferred language but also express to you how you can show your love for them.”
Last night's episode of "Married At First Sight" was jampacked full of drama. We discuss it all inside.
Maybe now, when you don't just have to go through the motions of things, when you have plenty of free time, and when you're not around anyone for whom you need to put on airs because you're not around anyone, you're coming to some realizations about your old life.
It can be so difficult to admit that you have dedicated possibly several years if not more than a decade and so much energy to what turned out to be the wrong career for you. You feel it in your bones. You were not put on this planet to do this thing. But, it can be easier to stick it out, because you came this far. You think maybe you will just spend your whole life at a job you don’t like rather than shock everyone, quit, and start from the bottom at something new.
You know what you did with those dumb boys: if you had a bad day, you didn’t tell them. They made you feel like time with them was meant for fun and not real life. So you had your “relationship” and then you had the rest of your life, and you kept the two separate, so as not to burden your man (boy). But the man who wears his heart on his sleeve is okay with you letting him know what's going on your life.
If you continue to pursue a relationship with someone who is showing signs of emotional immaturity, you will probably end up disappointed.