controlling men
Sources close to the production of Tamar Braxton's new show "Get Ya Life," claim that her boyfriend David Adefeso has been controlling and attention-seeking during the filming of the show.
Looking back, I realize I was going through similar phases and exhibiting common behaviors during those times. Controlling men don’t just come out of nowhere. Here are the reasons you might be attracting them.
During a recent interview, breaking down the lyrics to her song, "B.I.T.C.H." rapper Megan Thee Stallion talked about everything from twerking, body autonomy and controlling men.
You won’t really take compliments for your accomplishments. If your date tries to tell you that your work is impressive, you downplay it. In fact, you say things like, “A monkey could do it. It’s really easy. Nothing to be impressed about.” To a controlling man, this says one very important thing: low self-esteem.
A Twitter user thought he'd explain why Black women won't date him. When he did so, Black women were quick to show him the error of his ways.
When the beta male wants to get laid, he’ll complain that you two never have sex. And while it’s good that you initiate sex sometimes, he expects you to all of the time. If you don’t, he just whines and throws a tantrum about it.
A lot of these behaviors are sweet but they could represent a bigger issue if not rooted in love
Why do men do the things they do? As women, this is a question we will likely never understand.
From not liking the people you spend time with, to telling you how you should dress and needing to know every detail of your day, these are signs that your man could be controlling.
Feeling smothered?
“Why do I attract the crazy ones?!?” Ever heard a friend say that? Ever been the one saying that? If so, then you probably regularly have one or a few men texting you who you are delicately trying to give the hint to…go the hell away. Or you have embarrassing displays of gifts arriving at […]