The Real hosts Loni Love and Garcelle Beauvais got into a debate recently about the proper etiquette when it comes to FaceTiming people out of the blue. Accompanied by the fellow co-hosts Adrienne Houghton and Jeannie Mai, the ladies made us wonder, is it okay to video call someone without giving them a heads up first?

From "you can call me anytime" to "it's not you, it's me," these are 15 things that people say to be polite.