The "Listen To Black Men" cast made it clear that Black love and marriage are investments! 🖤

In this exclusive clip from the upcoming episode of "Black Love," Tank and his wife Zena Foster discuss the ups and downs of their relationship and how he got over his fear of messing things up.

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Discernment is good, over analyzing to the point of paralysis is not.

At a certain point, a couple may have faced a tremendous amount of challenges together. There may have been sickness, loss of jobs, loss of loved ones, collapse of businesses, and who knows what other catastrophes life threw at them. When a couple makes their first vows, they’re promising to be there for each other through hypothetical sickness, poverty, and such. So if they are actually there for each other through those things, that deserves a celebration.

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Getting to know who you are committing to will help you keep your heart three stacks...keep your heart.

Many couples feel frustrated by the fact that if they don’t go through the traditional (and exhausting and expensive and stressful) process of having a wedding, that people feel their relationship isn’t valid

For many, it seems they were looking for someone to push and encourage them.

Are you dropping hints and giving ultimatums?

While John eventually wanted to be in a relationship with me, at the time that I met his family, he wasn’t so sure. How backwards is that?

Two things here, ladies. One, this is your life. Take control of it.