Friends don't let married friends cheat!
“Infidelity is not always pre-planned or about sex; it ultimately happens when people act out their desires outside of the relationship instead of working on things within them. This might be about an unmet need."
Though she's moved on, as was obvious on RHOBH, Garcelle Beauvais still gets emotional when she talks about the moment she found out her ex-husband, Mike Nilon, was having a long-term affair on her.
An affair is not a real relationship. It isn’t subject to the same challenges and stresses of legitimate relationships. Affairs happen in hotel rooms, on vacations, in the late hours of the night, and under the cover of darkness. Friends and family are not involved. The mundane every day tasks of doing laundry and prepping meals don’t come into play. Some men just don’t know what it would be like to live that life with the mistress.
Someone has to be the bigger person.
Spreading shame one profile at a time.