If you often like to find a fixer-upper, it shows some control issues on your end. It’s not exactly healthy to want to boss around a romantic partner and try to make over a person’s entire life. Maybe, rather than putting a mirror in front of this man, it’s time to look in the mirror yourself. Why do you feel the need to take over everything?
When you mention that, on a certain day, you have a really important meeting, or will mourn the anniversary of the passing of a family pet, he jots it down in his calendar. He just wants to make sure he reaches out on that day.
Women have a way of opening their male partners up, and making them gradually more comfortable with being vulnerable and talking about their feelings. If you are a man’s first girlfriend, then opening him up emotionally, well…let’s just say being the first one to loosen the jar is never fun.
Are you dating someone like this?
You have to recognize that that guy didn’t break your heart—you broke your own.
He says he's a grown a** man, but does he act like one in your relationship?
Are you still ignoring this red flags?