Get your head and your ears out of the gutter. Missy Elliott says the favorite Tweet song "Oops (Oh My)" was not about masturbation, as people assumed.

“When you love yourself more, it helps you to take other peoples’ actions less personally. So you’re no longer stuck in a trigger/shame spiral,” says Francesca Hogi.

When asked if I read about how this one celebrity lost all of her weight or if I learned about/ have tried this weird diet trick some other celebrity is promoting, I’ve said, “I don’t really care about those things.” I wasn’t trying to throw shade at anyone who does care about them, but my friends certainly thought I was.

Charing says, as Black women, we are neither saints nor sinners. We are both as well as everything we choose to be in between.

Relaxed v. Natural, is it a preference or a psychological problem?

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