“I was going to sit next to you but I want you to feel comfortable so I’ll sit over here.” Wonderful. You get a trophy for…not disrespecting my physical boundaries? You could just respect them and not make a whole thing about it.
Avoid first dates that are overly active. Even though warm weather is conducive to rock climbing, don’t bring your date on this activity. There are just too many logistics—you don’t get the chance to talk. And nobody feels attractive in those harnesses.
Have any of these ever happened to you?
The earlier you know the better.
Men might not mean harm, but these moves just aren't it.