Following the recently surfaced video of Chet Hanks and his ex-girlfriend Kiana Parker in a violent fight, rapper The Game shared his words of advice for Hanks via Instagram. As he sees it, Hanks should consider going back to dating "Beckys" since he might not be built for the level of "anger" he was exposed to.

If you don't have anything nice to say...

This author recounts her struggle with insecurity and how it affected her ability to simply be nice to other women.

How come a black woman can't express feelings of frustration, hurt and even disappointment without the fear of being labeled bitter or having an attitude?

Don't let these mistakes hold you back from getting your man!