This Is What 46 And Unbothered Looks Like — Happy Birthday Mary!

Mary J. Blige has been through ups and downs her whole life so we knew it was only a matter of time before the pain of divorcing Kendu Isaacs passed and the singer got back to living her best self and it looks like today is that day.

Today, Mary turned a happy and healthy 46 and she celebrated another year of life like every woman should, being carefree. The Bronx-born babe has been on the beach all week, taking the time to shout out her fellow Capricorns Angie Martinez, Misa Hilton, Justin Combs, and more, in between soaking up sun rays.

Mary has gotten many women through tough times with her music, and because this is 2017 the Internet has done a great job of capturing those musical moments in Gif form to perfectly express our hopes, our fears, and our turn ups. So here, on Ms. Mary’s 46th birthday, are 10 of her best moments in Gif form. And a freebie just ‘cuz it’s her bday.