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You and your vagina have a life-long relationship, and like all really great relationships, this one evolves, transforms, goes through slumps, enjoys high points, and changes over the years. A lot of women don’t realize that their vagina changes much because, well, it’s not exactly like they stare at it in the mirror every day. We notice that our skin changes, that our hair changes, that our stamina changes…but we don’t always notice what’s going on downstairs. But it’s important to pay attention because your va-jay-jay’s health and appearance tell you a lot about other things happening in your body. It’s also just important to pay attention, so you’re not greeted with any unpleasant surprises. Here is how your vagina changes with age (besides becoming wiser).

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Your 20s: Infections galore

Why? Simply because you’re not educated yet. Women in their twenties work out at the gym and go directly to brunch, sitting in their sweaty clothes and developing UTIs. They also tend to eat diets higher in sugar, because their figure can still handle it, but this can cause yeast infections.

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Your 20s/30s: dryness

You may have heard that women hit their sexual peak a little later in life, and this may have something to do with it: earlier in life, most women are on the pill, and the pill can cause dryness down south. Dryness isn’t exactly conducive to the best sex of your life.

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Your 40s: rougher skin

Many women also report that their skin down there doesn’t feel quite as soft and buoyant as it did in their twenties. This could be a result of the body changing, and struggling to produce the plumping moisture that’s important to keeping all skin buoyant. It could also be a response to years of shaving and waxing.

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Your 60s: Muscle spasms

At his point, if you haven’t taken the right steps to fight things like vaginal dryness and other symptoms of menopause, sex may have become painful. As a defense mechanism, your pelvic muscles might spasm when they sense intercourse is about to happen, and that can make it more uncomfortable.

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Your 60s: Prolapse

Prolapse is when parts of the uterus or cervix begin to droop. Every woman is at risk for this when she gives birth, but if she avoids it then, she’s at risk again in her 60s when looseness becomes a problem. If this happens to you, there is a surgery that can fix it.