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Fine phobia–it’s a real thing. Remember when Angie Stone said Idris Elba tried to date her and she didn’t want those problems?

The thing about fine men is usually we feel like we can’t trust them. We feel like they can have anyone they want and if they can have anyone they want, why should we trust them to be loyal? Nobody is really supposed to talk about this, and most attractive guys would never dare speak up about it for fear of being reprimanded, but some exceptionally attractive guys can have a hard time meeting women because of the exact concerns I just laid out! Every woman looks at them and thinks, “Eh. That guy doesn’t need my attention. Somebody else will give it to him.” Maybe it should be you though. Maybe the phobia should stop with you. Here are reasons to stop being afraid of fine men.

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So, why are other guys loyal?

If you think an attractive guy wouldn’t be loyal because he has unlimited options, then are you saying that the other guys you date are only loyal because they have no other options? Hmm. That doesn’t say much for your confidence.

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Aren’t you exceptionally gorgeous too?

You should believe you are. That is an important self-love place to get to in life. And when you believe you’re beautiful, then everybody is beautiful and nobody is more beautiful any other–see my point?

 

 

 

 

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You shouldn’t settle

If you write off an entire group of guys in your search for love, then you’ll always wonder, no matter who you end up with, if you settled. You may end up with somebody great, but you won’t appreciate them because you didn’t give yourself a fair shot at exploring all your options.