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Some men have to grow on you. Sometimes you meet a guy who is a little rough around the edges, but underneath a few shenanigans and weird habits, there is a diamond in the rough. But other times, all you find underneath a few rough edges are more rough edges. And even though he’s adorable, or the sexual chemistry is right, everything else is just wrong.

If you’re dating a guy who’s giving you these red flags about himself, chances are the relationship is headed right toward a slow dance on your last nerve. It’s only natural to be tempted to want to make it work. He’s a nice guy, you say. And sometimes something that looks wrong manages to turn out right after all.

But when things are this wrong in the beginning, it’s hard to ignore the feeling that these personality quirks and deja vu moments are going to turn into things that you can’t stand.

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His Personality Is Just a Little Too Different

You want a man to take charge, but he rarely does. These kind of personality differences only get worse over time because even though he’s nice, it’s clear that you just want someone different.

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You Have to Explain His Behavior Before People Meet Him

“He’s cool, he just _____  a lot. But we’re working on it.” When you find yourself warning people about whatever you need to throw in that blank space, it’s a sign that his behavior is about to be a big problem.