Relationship Grudges That Men Hold On To Sometimes

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Women are the ones with the reputation for holding grudges. And while it’s true that we remember everything, that doesn’t mean that men don’t hold on to things too, including grudges.

Because men typically aren’t as communicative as women, we tend to think fellas let bygones be bygones, but trust and believe there are things some men never rget, and at some point in your relationship he will let you know he remembers these things.

Your Number

Any man who asks how many men you’ve slept with is never going to forget the number (especially if it’s bigger than he thought it should be).

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Those Things You Don’t Do Anymore

We all do more in the beginning of the relationship when things are brand new. But some men really struggle when things change. But sometimes you won’t know until the “you used to…” arguments start.

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Your Nighttime Attire

You thought you’d both reached the point where you were cool with wearing whatever’s comfortable to bed. But even the Real Housewives of Atlanta found out we can be wrong about that.

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How Much You Don’t Cook Anymore

He knows your job is more demanding, and you both have a favorite place to order in. But when a man is old school, chances are he’s always going to be quietly counting the days he doesn’t have a home cooked meal.

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That Friend of His That You Don’t Like

You and his friend had a falling out, you thought everyone had moved on — until you break up and hear “Craig was right about you all along.”

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That Friend of His That You Like Too Much

There’s one friend in his crew that made you think “what if I met him first?” It’s better to talk to him as little as possible. Men are good at picking up these signs.

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That Time You Said You’d Leave

You didn’t, but some men have trouble getting over it. And although they keep it low-key, sometimes their commitment level is never the same.

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When You Beat Him In A Game

Not all grudges are serious, but that still doesn’t mean you should let him win.

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When You Don’t Take His Advice

Or his help. He might not say anything then, but your next big argument might be about how you don’t need him (and seems like it comes out of nowhere).