Instant Bae: Signs He’s Moving Too Fast

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Women are stereotypically deemed as the ones who move too fast when dating or in a new relationship, but sometimes guys are just as guilty of getting ahead of themselves. Here are some tell-tale signs he’s moving a little too fast.

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From Texting to Sexting

You just gave him your number, and yet, he’s already sexting you out of the blue, or worse yet, sending you a d–k pic.

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Meet The Parents

“I want you to meet my mom.”

Really? I just met you, dude.

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Those Three Words

When is too soon to utter those three special words, “I love you”? If he says it within days or a few short weeks, you might think he’s either crazy or just saying what he thinks you want to hear. Either way, it’s off-putting.

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Skin To Skin

He wants to go at it without a condom either from the jump or soon after your first time together. Um…

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Moving In

If he suggests moving in together because things are going so well in the little time that you’ve known each other, just say no. Those are things that make you go hmm…

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Trying To Be Under You 24/7

The honeymoon stage of a relationship can be intoxicating, to say the least, but if he wants to spend every waking hour with you, so much so that you feel suffocated, that will get old really fast.

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He Wants To Settle Down With You Without Knowing The Basics

If he projects you into some fairy tale, forever after fantasy before learning the basics of you, not only is that a sign that he’s moving too fast, it can be a sign that he’s looking for a ready-made family.

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Magic 8 Ball

There’s nothing wrong with looking ahead to the future, but if he’s throwing you into his immediate and long-term future after only a few dates (and before you can assess how you feel about him), you might rightfully raise an eyebrow or two.

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“Meet My Girlfriend”

He introduces you to his friends as his girlfriend but did so before you two even discussed your relationship status. No bueno.

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Vacation

He wants to whisk you away to a Caribbean island of your choice. But are you both ready to get away together? Or is he more interested in the idea of being in a relationship and doing couple-like things instead of just being interested in you?

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Self-Esteem

If it seems that his self-esteem depends on whether or not you like him, that’s a huge step above moving too quickly. It’s a sign that he has some personal homework to do.