We’re all grown women here, which means most days we try to be the bigger person and hold our tongue when someone gets out of pocket. But every now and then our inner Petti LaBelle comes out and, well, we have to remind people, in the words of Kenya Moore, don’t come for us if we didn’t send for you. And here are 11 memes that perfectly sum up that sentiment when our pettiness gets the best of us.

It gets no simpler than that.

Just a word of advice.

Just basking in the joys of karma

Pretty much

Just in case you didn’t get it last time

What was that?

Peace and blessings.

Something about co-workers just brings the pettiness out of the best of us.

#Unbothered

Take away the f-ck, carry the 1…

But really?