The Art Of Fingering

As you get older, you might move away from hand-stuff. You probably just send your man’s face down there the moment you get aroused. But, a guy’s fingers can detect a lot more than his tongue can, if he knows how to use them right! Here are tips for the art of fingering.

Teasing

First, just run your fingers along the tops of her underwear and her vagina, just above the line that forms the lips of the vagina.

Soft, vertical strokes

Start stroking your fingers over the lips, up and down, not going in yet.

Go in slowly

Go back to vertical strokes, slowly starting to move your fingers into the lips.

A little further with each stroke

Go in the lips a little further with each stroke, really feeling around the inside walls of the lips now.

Start to apply more pressure

When you can tell she wants it, apply more pressure. Generally, if she has started to self-lubricate, she is ready for more pressure.

Open her up with two fingers

Use your pointer finger and ring finger to spread her lips open. Gently and slowly.

Keep stroking with your middle finger

Use your middle finger to keep stroking up and down the very center, between the lips from the clit down to the actual vagina entrance.

Now, go actually inside just a little

Now move your fingers inside her vagina, just a little.

Then go further

Now go a little further—about an inch or two. Insert one or two more fingers.

Next, the come hither motion, softly

Start flexing your fingers in a come-hither motion, slowly.

Now more pressure

Do this with a little more pressure now, making a circle with your fingers about the circumference of a penis.

Touch her G-spot just a little

Tap on her G-spot a little; continue the come-hither motion, and then tap on her G-spot again. Do this lightly—applying too much pressure there can be overwhelming.

Pull your fingers out and stroke on top

This is the perfect time to pull your fingers completely out and go back to stroking on top of the lips.

Slight clitoral stimulation again

Play with her clitoris a little bit. She’ll be ready to jump your bones now.