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No matter where you come from, women are hard on other women. But these ways that black women judge each other should really come to a stop.
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Hair
Sheryl Underwood reminded us that hair was still a major issue when she shaded black children with “nasty” “nappy beads” as not being as worthy as those with “beautiful, long silky stuff.”
Since long before Madame CJ Walker went into business, black women have been battling over “good hair” and “bad hair” and shading those with both.
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Why We Should Stop
Hearing Fresh Prince of Bel-Air star Tatyana Ali talk about being teased and the “burden of good hair” was a wake-up call that the knife cuts both ways.
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Skin Color
Kevin Hart says people shaded Eniko because she’s “exotic,” people are throwing “light skin/dark skin” parties and as long as people are still posting things like these, we still have a major problem with shading each other over skin color.
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Why We Should Stop
Colorism doesn’t stop at shade. It’s a global problem that more of us should get behind eradicating. Or at least we can get brothers like Lil’ Wayne to stop shading dark-skinned women who look just like his daughter :/
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Their Marriage Status
Nia Long is an award-winning actress, philanthropist and multi-millionare. But she still gets shade from other black women for being a “typical unwed mother.”
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Our Features
When NeNe Leakes defended her nose job and newer, thinner nose by saying, “I still wanted to look like NeNe, the black woman that I am, but a better version.” It reminded us that not only do black women shade each other for their features, they shade themselves as well.
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Why We Should Stop
Black on black shade has to take at least some of the blame for what has happened to Lil Kim’s face…
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Our Behinds
Posts like this are proof that women are always harder on each other when it comes to body image issues.
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Why We Should Stop
Because when people are dying from butt injections and Nikki Minaj can’t properly sit down, it’s time to start loving ourselves for who we are.
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Our Heritage
Ask a black woman her race and sometimes it’s difficult to get a straight answer. It’s one of the byproducts of not-quite-post-racial America. Somewhere along the line, women got the idea that being other-than-black was better.
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Why We Should Stop
Because when women like Raven Symone want to drop the African from African-American, or would rather be “international” or “exotic” we lose out on important parts of our cultural history.
