How To Turn A One Night Stand Into More

Some people say one night stands never turn into anything else, but we don’t believe them. In the following 24 hours, you can leave several different types of impressions, including a lasting one! Here’s how.

Do a little cuddling

Too many women are afraid the guy wants no touching, so they hide in their corner of the bed, as if nothing happened the night before, and this makes the guy think the woman wants it all to be over. You slept together! You’re allowed to nuzzle a little!

Little being the key word

Laying half your body on top of him and playing with his hair will feel smothering to him when he barely knows you. Snuggle up next to him—not on him.

Make him laugh

No guy wants to wake up to a woman who is clearly wondering if this will become something more than a one-night stand. Even if you don’t ask him, your awkwardness or even silence says enough. So the moment he wakes up, have a funny story to tell him. Keep things light.

Get out of bed soon after

Leave him wishing he got to spend more time in bed with you—be the first to hop out of bed, rather than lying there and forcing him to say it’s time to get up.

Stay naked

Show that you’re comfortable with what happened! Walk around his apartment in nothing but your underwear—make him imagine what it would be like to have that be a regular occurrence.

Call a friend

This might seem like an odd move but, while you’re still at his place/he’s at yours, call a friend who you were also with last night to recap the night and talk about all the funny stuff that happened.

Mention the guy

On your phone call, mention the guy is there and make sure he can hear you say it. He’ll find this pretty ballsy, and attractive. And it’s one more way to show him you so don’t think this is a big deal.

Ask him about the rest of his weekend

A)   Everybody likes talking about themselves and B) He’ll usually ask you in return what you’re doing for the rest of the weekend and suddenly, you’ll have a natural opening to plan another hangout. But don’t make the mistake of just waiting to text him a week later—that can make you look cowardly.

Tease him

He’ll naturally be wondering if you’re feeling insecure, so turn his attention right around and tease him for something you find in his apartment, or something funny he did in his sleep. Make him feel a little bit insecure, and suddenly he’ll want your attention.

Suggest grabbing breakfast

Don’t get up and make him breakfast in his kitchen, and don’t let him wake up to find you waiting in the kitchen with the croissants you picked up—that’s a bit too eager. But hey, you both have to eat, so suggest you go out for breakfast somewhere nearby. And he’ll notice that you’re fun to hang out with beyond the bedroom.

Go somewhere fun for breakfast

Now that you’re out, don’t just go to a café where you can grab a muffin to go. Come up with a fun spot—maybe somewhere you’ll need to wait a while for a table and can have bloody marys—so it becomes a pseudo second date.

Don’t ask, “When will I see you next?”

Call it a mind game, but most men will find it attractive if it seems like you don’t care if or when you see them again. It tells them you have an active life and are too busy to worry about that kind of thing.

Send a sexy text that same day

Later that day, after leaving him, send him a sexy text reminding him about something that happened the night before.

Followed by a funny text

Once you’ve re-piqued his interest, wrap up the conversation quickly with a funny text—just so this doesn’t accidentally slip into being just a sex thing.