14 Of The Most Annoying Things Men Do On Dates

We’ve all been on one of those dates with one of those guys who makes us look back and say, “seriously, did you just ask/do that?” All of us have some annoying habits that can be really frustrating to others. But for some reason, some men seem to have more than their fair share of frustrating qualities, and for some reason they all come out on first dates. Here are 14 annoying things men do on dates, and we really wish that they’d just stop!

Texting

It’s okay to have a busy social life that involves a lot of friends. It’s also okay to have a busy career that sometimes spills over into your free time. However, there is no reason that a man should be texting at the table. It’s extremely rude and it makes things really awkward. There’s nothing more frustrating than trying to eat and all the while this guy is clicking away at his phone. Men, keep your phone away until the date is over.

Using social media

This goes along with texting, but there is no need to take a picture of yourself while on a date so that you can inform all of your Instagram friends. There’s also no need for you to chat on Facebook or update your status to keep all of your boys in the know of what’s going on. We also aren’t interested in seeing your friend’s dog or your camping trip from last summer. Save the social media guys!

Asking about sex

On the first couple of dates, there is no reason for a man to talk about sex in any way, shape, or form. Not only does it make the overall conversation and environment awkward, it also reflects on him poorly. When a guy talks about sex and other physical things, he is probably only interested in exactly that. After a few dates and some time spent getting closer and more comfortable, this sort of topic is all right. But on the first or second date? Goodness no! This may be on the top of the list of annoying things men do on dates.

Not tipping

As it is, waiters, waitresses, and restaurant staff don’t often make a lot of money. No matter who or how the bill is paid, it’s all but expected that the man will leave the tip. After having an amazing waitress all night, you notice that he’s left a $5 tip for a $75 dinner. Not only is he cheap, he’s extremely inconsiderate of other people. What a huge turn-off.

Ordering food for you

This hopefully hasn’t happened to you often, but there are some men who like to think that they can please a woman and show off by selecting her meal because “he know what tastes best on the menu.” While it’s nice to have recommendations and it’s also nice to know what type of food the two of you enjoy, having a man make your food choices is just odd. It also suggests he’s a bit controlling.

Mentioning his ex-girlfriend

Women are more likely to talk about their past relationships than men, but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t guys out there who are still carrying some baggage and dwelling over an ended relationship. If a man is in the middle of a divorce, then it’s acceptable for him to talk about his ex-lover. However, randomly bringing up an ex and talking about how good or bad she was is just uncalled for.

Making fun of your job choice

It’s really rude when a man tries to pick fun at your career choice, even if he is doing it in a joking way. Maybe you’re an IT worker and this one man called you a complete geek. Or maybe you’re a writer and this guy doesn’t feel like that’s a real job. Whatever the case may be, it’s never right, or enjoyable, for a man to make fun of your career choice. Patronizing how you make a living is outright rude.

Mocking your situation

Maybe you still have to ask your parents for money sometimes. Or maybe you’re living with three different roommates because your job just isn’t paying enough yet, or your student debt is just way too much. When a man makes fun of your social and living situation, all signs point to him being a complete jerk. Not only is this annoying, but it can be hurtful in some ways. A real man will listen, take it all in, and maybe even have the same type of story to share.

Poor table manners

Having to listen to a guy chomp down on his food with each bite or having to talk to a man who insists on speaking with a mouthful of food is definitely a date ruining experience. Some men have absolutely horrible table manners, and many of them don’t notice them one bit. How unattractive is it for a guy to make all sorts of noises when eating, especially during a time when he is supposed to be trying to draw you in?

Improper communication

Some men are all over the map when it comes to proper communication during a date. Some talk way too much and hardly leave any room for you to reply or talk about yourselves, while others are way too quiet and it’s like pulling teeth in order to get him to hold a conversation. Being on a date with a guy who simply sucks at communicating is really annoying, not to mention frustrating.

Being way too touchy-feely

While on a date, a man should be looking to impress you, so we all but expect doors to be opened for us and for the bill to be paid without second guess. A hug at the end of the night is also nice, but other than that, physical contact should be minimal. But, sometimes you get those guys who just want to touch you and be extremely close. Throughout dinner his hand is on your leg or he’s playing with your hair. Uncomfortable much?

Cracking his knuckles

Some people don’t mind listening to someone cracking their knuckles, but for some women, the sound can be like nails on a chalkboard. On a first date, having to listen to a man crack his knuckles, even just once, definitely isn’t something that you likely want to hear. During a date, a guy should be working on being as charming and self-controlling as possible. Knuckle cracking is not cute.

Having shifty eyes

Look, a man’s eyes should be fixed on yours and nowhere else. That means not on your “girls,” not on anybody else’s “girls,” and please no booty glances. If we can’t have your undivided attention from the get-go where are we supposed to believe this thing is going?

Drinking too much

Just like a drunk woman, there is nothing less attractive than a man who can’t hold his alcohol, or a man who doesn’t know when to stop. Having a few drinks on the first date is fine, in fact, this can be really helpful in making the two of you a lot less nervous and anxious. However, there is a certain point that you reach when you know enough is enough. A drunk man is annoying as can be.