Most women have that one friend who is a little out there. She uses sex like a credit card, a weapon, a bargaining chip or some other inanimate object that should really not substitute for a vagina. Shucks, maybe you are that woman! Whatever the case, women who get around need friends too and just because they are bed hoppers doesn’t mean they can’t be good friends. Actually, there are some benefits to befriending those types of chicks. No, really!
1. Sex Tips
In addition to freely dishing out the goods between her legs, your girl can dole out some good sex advice too. She knows every trick under the sun! Can’t get your reverse cowgirl in high-gear? She can tell you exactly what you need to do. She’s done stuff you never thought was possible. Your man will appreciate your loosey goosey friend’s influence on your bedroom behavior.
2. Toy Recommendations
Dildos aren’t the only sex toys in town, you know. Maybe your man has the length and girth that would put any battery-powered imposter to shame, but that doesn’t mean you can’t use other things. There are whips, blindfolds, edible massage oil and all types of kinky extras. Your friend can give you thorough reviews and solid recommendations. No need to fuss around with toys that are no fun or easily breakable.
3. Condom Resource
Some guys try to play you for the fool and get you to have unprotected sex because they don’t like how condoms feel. You are much too smart to fall for such nonsense, but it doesn’t hurt to make condom use more fun. Your friend with a spring between her legs has you covered—flavored, textured, extra large, multi-colored, whatever. She got you, boo! Plus she can tell you which ones taste the best, which ones are more apt to tear and other priceless information.
4. No Judgment
Every woman, EVERY woman, has a little something something in her past. Maybe you had a one night stand, slept with your boss or maybe you got down with more than one person at the same time. Whatever “it” is, you probably don’t talk about it too often. When you’re with your hoodrat-ish friend, you can feel free to tell those tales without fear of being judged.
5. Benefits Without the Put-Out
Your friend with questionable morals is probably not a hooker per se, but maybe she has been known to expect an item or two in exchange for her ummmm talents. That being said, you know homegirl is on all the right guestlists at all the hottest clubs and getting bottle service to boot. As her plus one, you get to benefit from her adventures without having to put yourself out there like that. Win!
6. Creative Inspiration
For artists, people who indulge in extremes are the perfect muses. Novelists, painters, screenwriters and all those other creative types love to hang out with the Samanthas and Lynns of the world. You never know what’s going to come out the mouths of women like that.
7. Drama Fix
Everybody likes drama. That’s why we watch all those crazy reality shows. Not everybody wants drama in their own lives though. If your life is super boring and predictable, listening to your girl’s Going Deep adventures can fill that drama void in your life. Isn’t that nice of her? You don’t have to go ham on your man to get a little titillation.
8. Tricks of the Trade
You might find that your friend who touts her ability to swallow soda cans and such does not care too much about whether or not her partner of the moment is some other woman’s man. She probably plays her position in terms of sneaking around and making sure he doesn’t get caught. Take notes, girl! Find out how trifling women operate. Oh and make sure your friend isn’t performing her magic on your man. Hello!
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