One of the greatest needs of all human beings is sex. For men, sex is like a food group and something we think about roughly every seven seconds. A sex-starved relationship is a nightmare for a man, and if you try to use sex as a weapon to control him, it will surely blow up in your face. Here are some tips on how you can make sure your man is eating ‘good’ and that he’s always eating at your table.
1) Attitude
As we tell kids in elementary school, attitude is everything. A woman who is good in bed is the one who loves everything you like, and wants you more than anything. So, try to keep an inviting smile on your face and seduce him at every available opportunity. Sex should never be presented as a chore.
2) Access
Is your store typically open for business, or must your man wait until a special holiday? If you’re the one who’s always too busy, too tired or disinterested in having sex, you’ll also be the one who finds that your man has become less interested in the relationship. Whatever it takes to be sexually available, find a way to do it.
3) Openness
No one likes a traffic cop in the bedroom. The traffic cop is the person who says “no,” “stop” and “don’t” in every other sentence. A man likes a woman who can go with the flow and immerse herself in the experience. Sure there are times when you must use the word “no,” but try to use it as little as possible.
4) Communication
Tell him what you like and make sure you know what he likes. He’s not the same as the last guy. If you can wire into his fantasies and needs, he will be eternally grateful.
5) Multiple connections, not just physical
The largest sex organ is the brain. If you connect to a man’s mind, then you have successfully distinguished yourself from one of the other three billion vaginas and pairs of breasts that exist in the world. There’s nothing more attractive than the attractive woman who is also your best friend.
6) Surprising comments
Call him on the phone in the middle of the day and say the nastiest thing you can think of. That dirty little text message or call to the office can be just the right thing to get your man riled up.
7) You let him go to sleep
For whatever reason, men are tired after sex. We may not even want to cuddle, and many of us don’t want to talk. At best, we might turn on the TV and hold the remote until it’s time to snore. The perfect woman is the one who lets the man enjoy the afterglow without wanting to have a two-hour conversation. If he does a good job, perhaps you will be sleepy yourself.
8 ) Good study skills
Adult Videos stars are the ultimate contradiction for men. Some men have no respect for Adult Videos stars, but they love them for their skills. If your man has a favorite Adult Videos star, ask him to tell you what she does. He’ll appreciate the fact that you’re open enough to let him be honest with you. You might also be able to learn a thing or two from watching her in action.
9) A little schizophrenia
Your man wants you to be dirty, but not all the time, and not with everyone. In fact, most commodities are valued based on their scarcity. There’s something seductive about the woman who is the perfect lady to the world, but a steamy hot vixen behind closed doors. You want to be that woman.
10) A large tool belt
Let’s be real: there are a lot of ways to please a man. The more options you bring to the table, the more he will be knocking down your door. If you believe your man is the right person for you to express yourself with, then I encourage you to open the flood gates and pick up some new techniques.
11) *Wild card*
Sometimes, a woman is just good in bed because of something that’s uniquely her own…something un-categorizable that nobody else shares…something about her that just turns her man on or blows his brains out – literally and figuratively. It can be her scream, a moan, or that little laugh she has when tickled…
