Mind-blowing sex is a beautiful and honorable gift within the context of marriage. It is truly wonderful when sexual intercourse between spouses is so good that their neighbors really do know their names. Oftentimes, however, a spouse can cause adversely affect their sex life in a significant way by screaming or moaning the name of another person, especially a past lover. Some cynics and commentators may state, “What the big deal?” Well, there have been numerous documented cases where spouses, especially women, have been strangled and murdered calling their spouse by the wrong name in the heat of the moment. Now, if you and your spouse are role playing and you have both agreed to call each other different names, then it is obviously fine. If not, you have made a serious bedroom blunder. To avoid severe repercussions and to preclude your neighbors from hearing the wrong name, it is recommended that you implement the following actions to prevent an embarrassing mishap…
Don’t say any names. To be sure, I am not recommending that all spouses stop saying names during their beautiful intercourse. For some couples, it is one of the common components of their sexual interaction. If you and your spouse have a strong marriage and do not hold on to past lovers in your hearts, then by all means have lots of fun. But, if you are a spouse who consistently fantasizes about past lovers or a new lust interest, then it would prove prudent if you would not say any names during intercourse. There are a plethora of other means of expressing your satisfaction (e.g., moaning, groaning, etc.) to your spouse.
Genuinely let go of your past lovers. Although they are married, there are some spouses who simply cannot let go of past lovers in their hearts, which often leads to the name slips. For these respective spouses, there still remains a hole in their heart that evolved from a painful heartbreak with a past lover. It is imperative to release your past baggage by acknowledging the pain, forgiving those who have hurt you and recognizing that you cannot change the past.
Strengthen and improve your marriage. Once you have released emotional baggage, it is important to refocus on strengthening and improving your marriage, including your sex life. The more you focus on building love, trust and intimacy with your spouse, the less idle time you will have to think about anyone else in a lustful manner.
