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2. Explore your partner with Irrumatio. 

Irrumatio is the act of combining oral intimacy with dominance and submission. You can practice this spicy technique with your partner by adopting a submissive role. Offer yourself up by helping them to achieve total pleasure. Irrumatio can be achieved by kneeling or positioning yourself at their feet, creating the illusion that you are at their beck and call. On the other hand, you can explore dominance by exercising control over their most sensitive and vulnerable areas, perhaps using the symbolic power of your teeth’s sharpness to emphasize your authority. 

“For the receiver, oral pleasure involves surrendering a degree of control while also holding a subtle form of power, with the proximity of their phallus to their partner’s throat symbolizing vulnerability and dominance,”  Dr. O’Reilly wrote of the irrumatio technique.