1. They talk only about themselves.

Ever find yourself stuck listening to your friend go on and on about their problems, their drama, their career struggles—while you can’t seem to get a word in? And when you finally share something about your life, they immediately shift the focus back to themselves? If it feels like you’re just a sounding board for their constant updates, that’s a red flag. Healthy friendships involve mutual listening and care, not just one person dominating the conversation.

Gabrielle Applebury, LMFT, a Los Angeles-based therapist, told SELF, that its important to decipher whether your friend is truly being dismissive of your thoughts and concerns, or if they have “poor communication skills” that maybe hindering them from being supportive when you need them. Try speaking to them directly about the issue before cutting ties.

The stress of work is starting to attack her body

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