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7 Sexy Games People Play To Spice It Up In Bedroom
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When a relationship is fresh, you can’t keep your hands off of each other. And you can’t imagine feeling any other way about your partner. Fast forward to five or more years down the line, and you might be shocked at how much you used to do it. Where did that sexual stamina go? It’s not like you don’t love your partner or find them attractive. But, if you’re like many people, your sex life just kind of…loses steam after some time. The Institute for Family Studies shows that the percentage of married individuals who have sex at least once a week has been on a rapid decline since the beginning of the century.
Doing the deed a little less is common, but that doesn’t mean it’s healthy. Sex is an important part of the intimacy equation. But, it’s no secret that, after some time, the sight of your partner naked might not do it for you. You need something a little extra. And that’s where some playful and sexy games can help. Here are sexy games to play with a partner that can make an experience that’s grown old, feel new again.
Draw Your Desires

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Maybe you aren’t quite comfortable talking about your desires. That’s okay. Just draw them. It’s like X-rated Pictionary. Draw the thing you’d like to do, like a role-play scenario, backdoor action, or shower play. See if your partner can guess what you’re after. And if and when they do, it’s time to try it. Or, maybe they’d like to build on your desire, and they can add to your drawing.
Remote Control Vibrator

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If you’re into a little edge play, it’s time to invest in a remote control vibrator. Here’s the twist: your partner gets the remote control. And if you’re feeling really adventurous, you can put the vibrator into your underwear for a night out with your partner. They can bring you close to orgasm throughout the night, then shut the vibrator off. You’ll be rearing to rip each other’s clothes off when you get home.
Sand Timer Sexy Time

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Get an old-fashioned sand clock. Then write a series of sexy activities like “lick their body” or “give oral” or “spank” on various cards. Choose a card, then do whatever is on it for one full cycle of the sand timer. Knowing that you only get to engage in each activity for a limited amount of time will get you both really excited. See how many rounds you can last until you just have to get it on.
Create A Menu

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Maybe there are several scenarios and activities you’d like to try, but you don’t feel like talking about each one. You can instead create a sexy menu for your partner, detailing all of your dirty desires. From there, your partner can just check yes or no next to the things they’d like to try. And you can get the appropriate toys, costumes, etc., and initiate the designated activity.
One Pic At A Time

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This is one of those sexy games to only play with someone you trust. Take a bunch of zoomed-in photos of every inch of your body. Send these to your partner throughout the day, one by one, finally ending at that money shot (whatever that is for you). Your partner’s desire for you will grow every hour, and you’ll both feel dirty in a fun way knowing you’re sending these images while sitting in a meeting.
Guess That Sensation

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Put a blindfold on your partner and then experiment with several sensations. You might rub an ice cube over your partner’s stomach or a feather down their back. You could even use honey and drizzle it on your partner. Once they guess a certain number correctly, you can end the game and do whatever you want.
Roll The Dice

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If you want to keep your sexy games simple, you’ll like this one. Create a list of sexual activities, numbered one through six. Then take turns rolling the dice. Whichever number the dice lands on, you have to do the corresponding sexual activity. You can add complexity to the game by rolling the dice once to choose the activity, and a second time to choose the number of minutes you’ll perform it.