When you mention a player most women think about a fast talking stereotypical guy everyone can recognize as a good for nothing dude. Well it goes deeper than the guy always shouting “hey baby” whenever he sees you walking past. There is a player’s code even men who come across as husband material will adhere to until they die. You see, true (educated) players can wear many fraudulent faces. He may not run around with plenty of women but he still obeys the code players live by. These men idolize players from the time they’re VERY young. They mimic the way players talk, dress, and start trying to get all the little girls to like them in the neighborhood so they can get a pat on the back from the older players they admire. The pat on the back builds his self esteem and gives him the attention he craves so deeply. The value of a woman plummets in his eyes, very few women have any real worth to him. In fact, the main woman who has the utmost respect is his mother. Other women he places on his hierarchy chart according to key qualities players deem as worthy. Are you on an educated player’s hierarchy list and don’t know it? Are you being fooled right now? Do you think it’s beneficial to learn this code so you can detect and avoid it in the future?
Don’t Think You Can Figure Him Out
Educated players can clearly see where you’re lacking and capitalize on it in a hurry. They know you’re not a man so it’s impossible to know everything about players. Being a skilled chameleon is part of his trade.
Are you a part of his “public relations” team?
If you are a part of his PR team, players love you. Women will be on his PR team and not realize it. The more you brag about his “skills” the bigger you make his reputation as well as make other women curious to try him out. He feels women who hear of his reputation feel like they would rather have him if only briefly than not be desired by him at all. Stay off the PR team!
Being “too nice” is boring
Educated players understand that if they are too nice to you, it can become monotonous. The issues he raises from time to time keep things spicy, and it also makes you fear that he may leave. Stop blaming yourself or being trapped by fear, if he wants to stay he’ll stay with you anyway. TRUST ME!
He hates to give you time to think things through.
Professional players HATE for women to think for themselves. He knows if he catches her off guard and has an edge and can take the lead role in the situation he has a better shot of getting what he wants. He’s convinced that some people in general hate to think for themselves and just need a nudge from a person with a strong personality. Don’t feel pressured, take your time and think things through!
Don’t think you can’t be fooled.
Some women think that they can spot a player right away. However, educated players graduate from being street talkers with multiple women, into being in tune to what decent women are looking for in a husband. It is best to learn the rules that players live by and stop believing that you’ve seen every type of player there is out there.
Don’t be a victim.
A player knows how to make you feel better about yourself. He adapts to your mood, enters your spirit and knows how to push your buttons by the information you provide when you answer certain questions. He understands that if you’re content in life it’s harder to make a fool out of you. Make sure you completely trust the man before you reveal certain information. It WILL be used against you later.
This is a glimpse of what’s in my ebook “How To Finally Recognize And Avoid A Professional Player. Secrets Revealed Every Woman Should Know” for only $5.99 at barnes&noble.com Equip yourselves, your daughter, and your friends with this knowledge.
Jamel Mont is an author who is also an ex player that started sharing knowledge with women and his young female relatives and figured he’d share this information with other women and young girls. If you don’t own a nook, you can download “Nook for PC” and or “Nook for Android” to read it on your phone.
