In the midst of heartbreak, for many women, it’s hard to look forward and pick yourself up from the pain. For others though, a split from a tumultuous relationship is the perfect opportunity to live one’s best life. The way to do so for the following famous women included getting super fit, changing up their hair and style, and not being afraid to stunt on folks in a freakum dress from time to time. They went from dealing with cheaters, controlling men and even con-artists to striking it out on their own and looking better, and happier, than ever. We’ve compiled the photo proof of how they looked and carried themselves with the ol’ “ball and chain,” and their increase in confidence and shine after moving on. See 10 famous women who glowed up something serious after a bitter breakup.

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Tina Knowles-Lawson With and Without Mathew Knowles

women pre and post no-good men

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Mary J. Blige With and Without Kendu Issacs

women pre and post no-good men

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Tasha Smith With and Without Keith Douglas

women pre and post no-good men

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Monica With and Without Shannon Brown

women pre and post no-good men

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Torrei Hart With and Without Kevin Hart

women pre and post no-good men

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Monyetta Shaw With and Without Ex-Boyfriend Ne-Yo

women pre and post no-good men

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Halle Berry With and Without Olivier Martinez

women pre and post no-good men

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Porsha Williams During Marriage to Kordell Stewart and After

women pre and post no-good men

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Cynthia Bailey With and Without Peter Thomas

women pre and post no-good men

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Tamar Braxton With and Without Vince Herbert