Are you headed for first date burnout?
Are You Headed For First Date Burnout?
Gettyimages.com/A man is text message while on a date with his girlfriend. The woman is clearly upset with her boyfriend.
Being dedicated to dating, open to new experiences, enthusiastic about meeting people, and committed to finding commitment is terrific!…In moderation. There is such thing as just going on too many dates. It’s kind of like going out for too many job interviews or checking out too many new apartments—each of these could greatly affect your quality of life for a long time, so your brain has to be extra alert and tuned into details all of the time. You’re bound to feel a bit exhausted after a while. Going on first dates is no different. If you’re going to do them well, you’re going to put your heart and soul (and money and efforts) into them. Most people only have the stamina to do that for so long before their dates become sloppy, messy, blurs of experiences. Then you get nowhere. So, are you headed for first date burnout?
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You can’t remember a night without makeup
Your life feels like an endless cycle of straightening or curling your hair, putting on mascara, putting on foundation, taking off mascara, taking off foundation, and getting in and out of Spanx. You can’t remember a day when you didn’t have to put a ton of effort into your appearance.
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Your Lyft or Uber account is out of control
If you look at your ride history, you’re spending more time in a Lyft or Uber than in your own vehicle, the bus, the metro, or whatever your typical (sober) form of transportation is.
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You’ve been mistaking one guy for another
You’ve asked a guy how his sister with the lama ranch is doing but this guy doesn’t have a sister or know anyone with a lama ranch—you’ve just started confusing one guy for another.
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You hate the sound of your own voice
You’ve told your story—about your family, your college years, your best friends, your work—so many times that you hate the sound of your own voice. You’re considering making a PowerPoint presentation of this information to show first dates.
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You can’t remember who you’ve told what
You’ve told the same story more than once to the same person…several times. Many dates have had to say, “You already told me that.” But you can’t keep what you’ve told whom straight.
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Dating feels like the worst errand
When you go to meet a date, you sort of feel the way you feel when you drive to the pharmacy, and know you’re going to have to wait in line for a long time and endure the annoying banter with the checkout person.
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You have no tolerance for schedule changes
If someone changes the time of a date on you, you just can’t do it. You become noticeably annoyed. Your brain doesn’t have the bandwidth for any adjustments.
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You tune out for a long time on dates
Sometimes, you realize, that you haven’t been listening for 20 minutes. You just hope that your date doesn’t ask you any questions about what he just said because you have no idea.
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Answering, “What did you do this week?” is awkward
You really hope your date doesn’t ask you what you’ve been up to that week because you’ve just been on a date every night. Okay let’s face it: that’s been your whole month.
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You just want to buy a boyfriend
Can you just purchase one? You’d love to throw money at the problem at this point.
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You’ve blacked out entire dates
Like, you don’t remember entire dates. Your friends ask about them and you say, “What’s that now? When did that happen?” Your brain is running out of room for date stories.
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Dates have asked you if you’re okay
You’ve seemed so agitated or exhausted that dates have asked you if you were okay, if you needed to go home, or if you were mad at them (ten minutes into the date).
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Your friends are more excited about your dates
Your friends and family are more excited about your dates than you are. They ask you about them with a light in their eyes and you say, “Oh that? Yeah. I guess it’ll be fine.”
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The apps feel like a slot machine
You’ve developed a slot machine mentality towards apps. You just keep scrolling and scrolling and scrolling until your eyes become bleary and you’ve lost track of time.
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You’re going to the wrong place at the wrong time
You’re going to the wrong place at the right time or the right place at the wrong time, confusing whom you’re meeting where and when.
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